We received the sad news that Robert Bowen, who was married to poet Amy Lemmon, died from injuries sustained in a terrible accident. Robert was hit by a truck while riding his bicycle in Manhattan. Amy and their two children, Stella and Bobby, are in our thoughts and prayers.
Amy is facing a tough future as she manages childcare as a single mother of two children, one with special needs. Amy has written eloquently here, in Saint Nobody, and on her blog about her family life. I'm going to post a poem of Amy's that I find especially moving later on today.
So many have asked how they can help. Amy's colleagues and friends have set up a PayPal account for Stella and Bobby. To contribute, follow this link. Enter [email protected] in the "to" box and your own e-mail in the "from" box. After you've filled in the amount of your contribution, click the "personal" tab. You need a PayPal account for this transaction but setting one up is quick and easy.
Amy sends along this message:
Bob's passing is a great loss for the poetry world, as well as for the many poets who love him. Although music was his main medium of expression, poetry was essential to him, and many of his compositions were inspired by poems. Bob was the first reader (and best reader) for my work over the years and my main role model in the creative process. He taught me by example how to value art above all life's other exigencies, and how to press on in the face of rejection and discouragement. "There is no failure," he always said. I definitely could not have written Saint Nobody without him. I dedicated my chapbook, Fine Motor, to Bob with this quote from T. S. Eliot, 'For us, there is only the trying. The rest is not our business.' Pax et amor, R.E.B. III."
Robert was an enormously talented jazz musician and from what I've been told by those who knew him he was a generous and gifted teacher as well. And he was a lot of fun. If you would like to post a remembrance, please do so in the comments or you can send them to me at [email protected].
We understand that friends are planning a memorial concert. We'll post the particulars as soon as we know them.
Please be generous.
-- sdh
Oh, what terrible news - Amy, Bobby, and Stella are in all our prayers.
Posted by: Laura Orem | September 02, 2010 at 03:30 PM
Oh! That's terrible. Sending Amy & kids lots of love.
Posted by: shanna | September 02, 2010 at 03:49 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this terrible news. Holding the family in prayer.
Posted by: Marilyn Nelson | September 02, 2010 at 04:00 PM
I can't get the email to work via Paypal. Any ideas? So sorry to hear this.
Posted by: Sam Gwynn | September 02, 2010 at 11:03 PM
Never mind. Just be sure to log in first.
Posted by: Sam Gwynn | September 02, 2010 at 11:05 PM
This is sad news indeed. So sorry.
Posted by: Jim Mintner | September 09, 2010 at 05:33 AM