Wang Ping on the rooftop of Rudy Burckhardt's apartment building in NYC. Photo by Rudy Burckhardt.
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Our Prayers on Father’s Day
Dear God, we are not child actors. We are children. Real children.
Dear God, where is my papa and mama? We just walked 3,000 miles, fighting coyotes along the way. We thought we’d be safe once we crossed the Rio Grande.
Dear God, you said everyone is born equal, every life is a gift, and the kingdom of heaven resides in the mustard seed.
Dear God, we are small and young. Some of us just learned to walk, some still wear diapers, and some are still nursing. Are we not your tiny mustard seeds, dear God?
You say a kid must not be boiled or eaten in mother’s milk. Why are you ripping us from our mother’s breasts, from our father’s hands?
Dear God, we have lost everything: our country, our home, our friends and tomorrow. We have nothing left but our papa and mama. Please give them back.
Dear God, here’s my mama’s number. Here’s my papa’s number. Here’s my aunt’s number. I have it memorized. Please call so we can get out of this dog kennel.
Dear God, you cried for donkeys moaning under loads and falling on the roadside. Are you crying for us, as we fall off la bestia, crushed under tren de la muerte?
Dear God, you wept when you heard starving baby ravens crying from the nest. Are you weeping for us, Lord, as you hear our wailing for papa and mama from the cage?
Dear God, we followed your law to flee from danger: a burning forest, a roaring tsunami, a raging war, violent gangs.
But dear God, it’s been months since I was yanked from mama’s breasts, since I’m left in the cage, crawling in circles . . . as I turn the tender age of 11 months old.
Dear God, we didn’t want to leave home, walk 3,000 miles, or fall off la bestia.
Dear God, we are not criminals or child actors. We just want our mama and papa. Our parents are not criminals or actors. They just want to raise us. There’s no script. Our only word is to live, like all God’s children.
Do not turn off the light on us, dear God. Do not throw away the key to our cage. Give back our papa and mama, dear Lord. Do not forsake us, alone, terrified, drowning in our tears. Hear our cries on Father’s Day. Hear the cries of our fathers and mothers, dying from the death sentence of separation.
Dear God, please let us be children again, like arrows in the hands of a warrior. For we’re your mustard seeds, your heritage, keys to thy kingdom of heaven, dearest God.
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Wang Ping was born in China and came to the U.S. in 1985. Her publications of poetry and prose include American Visa, Foreign Devil, Of Flesh and Spirit, New Generation: Poetry from China Today, Aching for Beauty: Footbinding in China, The Magic Whip, The Dragon Emperor, The Last Communist Virgin, Flashcards: Poems by Yu Jian, Ten Thousand Waves, and Life of Miracles along the Yangtze and Mississippi (AWP 2017 award for non-fiction). She won the Eugene-Kayden Award for the Best Book in Humanities and is the recipient of an NEA felllowship, the Bush Artist Fellowship for poetry, the McKnight Fellowship for non-fiction, and many other awards. She received her Distinct Immigrant Award in 2014, and Venezuela International Poet of Honor in 2015. She is the Minnesota Poet Laureate 2021-23, appointed by International Beat Poetry Foundation. She’s also a photographer, installation artist, and flamenco dancer. Her multi-media exhibitions include “Behind the Gate: After the Flood of the Three Gorges” and “Kinship of Rivers,” shown at schools, colleges, galleries, museums, lock and dams, and confluences along the Mississippi River. She is professor emerita of English at Macalester College and founder and director of Kinship of Rivers project.
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Rudy Burckhardt 6 fotos,1992
Thank you Ping. This subject roars through all of us. I wrote "The Migrant's Reply" in The Migrant States on this subject. I tip my hat to you for reminding us of our charge, our responsibility, our shame, our chance for redemption. In love and poetry. Indran
Posted by: Indran Amirthanayagam | June 20, 2021 at 11:56 AM
Ping rips the lid off of the boxes of denial
Everything flies out looking like words
Cannot be put back
Thank you Ping
Posted by: Grace Cavalieri | June 20, 2021 at 12:40 PM
Excellent and emotive commentary from a child's perspective. We need to let the emotions of this border crisis flow from poetic pens so people are able to relate emotionally to the victims. Poems such as this enable us to see new perspectives. Shedding light on the "child actor" conspiracies through an impactful verse may change some minds. We can only hope!
Posted by: Dustin Pickering | June 20, 2021 at 01:37 PM
This heart wrenching poem should be posted on the editorial page of every newspaper a cry for help that needs a response.
Posted by: Eileen | June 20, 2021 at 02:40 PM
Great post: both poem and photos. Kudos all around.
Posted by: David Lehman | June 20, 2021 at 03:05 PM
Incredible poem! As always, Ping's poetry contains struggle, heartache, and a brilliance that shines through it all.
Posted by: Tommy Sheffield | June 20, 2021 at 03:18 PM
This speaks very clearly to my sense of fatherhood. The essence of fatherhood is to protect our children, and this is the fundamental sense of decency that our border policy offends. Eloquent. Thank you for bringing us Ping's words.
Posted by: Ben Kreilkamp | June 20, 2021 at 03:37 PM
Wang Ping has said it all on this Father's Day.
Posted by: Maureen owen | June 20, 2021 at 03:54 PM
Ah, to be a child again and sail away into the furthest clouds.
Thank you, Ping!
Posted by: Marc | June 20, 2021 at 03:54 PM
thank you everyone, for your support! you truly give me hope for America! You make America truly beautiful!
Thank you, Best American Poetry!
Posted by: ping wang | June 20, 2021 at 03:55 PM
Invincible this poem. Hear hear
Posted by: Clarinda harriss | June 20, 2021 at 04:06 PM
DL: Glad you liked it.
Posted by: Terence Winch | June 20, 2021 at 04:38 PM
Ben: thanks for the comment.
Posted by: Terence Winch | June 20, 2021 at 04:47 PM
Thank you for posting this. Wang Ping is one of America's -- no, the world's -- most accomplished poets and writers. More of Wang Ping, please!
Posted by: Richard J Broderick | June 20, 2021 at 04:48 PM
yay wang ping for your brilliant poetry and activism and example
Posted by: lally | June 20, 2021 at 05:04 PM
Thanks for posting this. Ping is an amazingly brilliant poet.
Posted by: Andy Galvin | June 20, 2021 at 11:25 PM
Your work always moves me. Thanks.
Posted by: Ira Rifkin | June 20, 2021 at 11:52 PM
Thank you once again, Wang Ping, for poetry as lean, raw, and muscular as a child's beating heart.
Posted by: Thea Temple | June 21, 2021 at 12:27 AM
This is very beautiful. Prayer like art and poetry is foundation of growth and change for the better. Happy to have you lead us.
Posted by: Andy Lininger | June 21, 2021 at 12:47 PM
Wang Ping
thank you for writing this poem, and pleased to see it here!
Posted by: Kerry Shawn Keys | June 21, 2021 at 01:34 PM
"Dear God, here’s my mama’s number. Here’s my papa’s number. Here’s my aunt’s number. I have it memorized. Please call so we can get out of this dog kennel."
Intense, left me almost shaking. Whew!! Thank you.
(great picture of you btw)
Posted by: Nirmal Ghosh | June 21, 2021 at 03:02 PM
That writing is powerful!
I am so grateful you followed the unknown to your truth.
So many others would have taken prestige and settled to be a professor’s wife.
Clearly some people are educated beyond their intelligence: Many are the educational elitism.
Our experiences and free spirit allow us to follow a deeper call for expression in whatever direction we choose.
Posted by: Patricia Messer | June 21, 2021 at 03:26 PM
Thanks for this poem. Thanks for thinking of us fathers on our day.
Posted by: Jeff hansen | June 21, 2021 at 04:20 PM
This deeply moving poem starts with "Dear God" and ends with "Dearest God." What a lovely expression of unflinching faith! No wonder Jesus said we need to be like little children.
Posted by: Peter Kearney | June 21, 2021 at 06:13 PM
Unspoken whispers of the heart. crying out to the hypocrisy in the world... we live in biblical times. Wang Ping's voice is an arrow straight to the truth covered by the layers of rhetorical lies.
Posted by: Michael Moore | June 21, 2021 at 08:57 PM