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February 21, 2025

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Happy to see you exploring the issue of Ageism here. You rcommentary is thoughtful & thought-provoking. Thank you for that. Bold to begin with Blackface. As I resd on I thought of Fred Astaire's marvelous "Bojangles of Harlem" in Swing Time (1936), an homage in toned down Blackface to the great Bill Robinson. Astaire was known for recognizing Black entertainers (Follow thre Fleet), yet was his Bojangles over the line? Certainly over Our line, today.

When it comes to Ageism, I feel we're in reverse. It was less an issue in 1936 than it is now. Is that because people didn't live as long as they do today? As a culture, now, we don't seem to be embracing the gifts of our elders. That's fatal.

There's old, older, elderly, Old and very old. Every label makes somebody wince. Neither you nor this actor can imagine...and it isn't the same for everyone. Too many variables, and some of them can't be isolated, let alone measured. I came from long-lived. My maternal grandmother died at 92, my mother at 96, my father at 91, and if they had had (read: been able to afford) better medical care, they would have lived longer. My paternal grandfather was old when he died at 79. My late lamented, the love of my life, was vigorous but vulnerable when he died (from complications of a preventable stroke) at 79. My mother used to say, "Old is either 80+ or ten years older than you are right now." My take on it is that longer is better only if it's better. I'm 83, in good health and dangerously wise. Listen up, show some respect, or get the hell outta my way.

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